How to Ask Your Crush for Their Cell Phone Number - Part 1 (Asking Directly)



How to Ask Your Crush for Their Cell Phone Number

Step 1

Smile and be confident. The most important thing when asking for a number is that you seem enthusiastic about the idea of calling your crush. Practice smiling and asking for your crush’s number in the mirror before you actually do it; this can help you work through your nervousness before you talk to them.
To appear more confident even if you’re not feeling confident, smile, stand up straight, and make eye contact with your crush when talking to them.
Remember that you want to date someone who’s interested in you, so you need to appear interested in them. Being too nervous may make it unclear that you actually like them.

Step 2

Ask “What’s your number?” as the simplest approach. If a conversation is going well, you can simply ask your crush for their number. This shows that you’re interested in talking to them more and you’re confident that they would want to give their number to you.
Have your phone or a pen out and ready when you ask; this shows that you have no doubt about your crush giving you their number.

Step 3

Try “I have to go but I’d like to talk more. You should give me your number.” This approach lets the person know directly that you want to talk to them again, and also that you’re busy and organized. Have your phone or a pen ready to get their number quickly.
Text your crush right after you part ways. Say, “It’s me! Save my number.”

Step 4

Say, “Let’s exchange numbers” if you mentioned plans or interests. This approach works best if the conversation headed toward things you both like to do or an event you both were going to. For example, you mention a party and your crush says they also want to go. You can say, “Let’s exchange numbers, maybe we can go together”.

Step 5

Give them your number first if you’re too nervous to ask for theirs. Say, “I’d like to talk to you more, let me give you my number.” This works well if your crush has their phone out already; you can hold your hand out as you say “let me give you my number” to enter your number in their phone for them.
Don’t grab your crush’s phone from their hand; this may come across as aggressive. If your crush seems reluctant to hand over their phone, just wait for them to respond. They will probably look down at their phone as they type and let you know when they’re ready for the number.

Step 6

Smile and say “no problem” if they say no. Always remember that you want to date someone who’s interested in you, and if your crush isn’t, it’s better for you to know and move on. Don’t ask them again or try to pressure them, cry, or look embarrassed. Even if you feel embarrassed, try to shrug it off as no big deal.
Try not to worry much about being rejected. It happens to people all the time, and you will eventually find someone who is interested in you.

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